Posts Tagged deep thoughts
Be nice.
Posted by deeryjennifer in Big Questions on July 17, 2014
This past Sunday, someone told me that I was very nice, but that I should be careful no one takes advantage of my niceness. I simply smiled and replied “Thank you for the compliment!” as we parted ways.
When did being nice turn into a disadvantage? I find it sad that someone would equate being nice with being naive. While both begin with the letter ‘n’ their meanings are completely different. Smiling and being nice to someone (even a stranger) is simply another choice. Growing up I would frequently roll my eyes and think to myself that my parents were too nice or that they smiled all the time for no reason.
*Please note that this was while I was an angst ridden teenager who was determined to be cool and aloof.
College and adulthoood have showed me that enjoying life, having fun, and being randomly silly is not a bad thing at all. Life without joy is a life endured. How much better to live your life with joy and fun!
So, the next time you have a chance to be nice to a stranger (I just helped a lady with kids carry her groceries out to her car) take the chance. Spread a little more nice around the world. Maybe start a trend.
People and penguins
Posted by deeryjennifer in Big Questions, penguins on January 25, 2014
I come from a family of talkers. Case in point, I called my mom and she was obviously losing her voice and after saying, I can't talk much, she then proceeded to talk! Perhaps saying my family are talkers is not tottally accurate – rather they are communicators. The ability to communicate with others is often taken for granted.
Of course we can talk to someone, of course we can write a letter (or even a blog!), of course we can draw a picture! Really, all these things are amazing…I can read a story written hundreds, even thousands, of years ago. Even if different languages are spoken, two people can still communicate with each other as anyone who has done the “where is the nearest bathroom” pantomime in a foreign country will attest!
I find people to be consistantly one of the most interesting parts of life. Stories of all forms have always fascinated me and each of us has a story that we tell in some fashion throughout the day. Take time to listen to the stories around you and I bet you will be surprised.
A friend asked me why I began this blog, what my plans for the blog were…and I realized that at the heart, I just wanted a place to tell stories. Yes, eventually there will be links to my children's books when the series is complete, but really, I just wanted a place where I could ramble for a bit every now and then.
I enjoy reading blogs and sites written by people who share snippets and insights – and if anyone enjoys reading this than so much the better.
As for a snippet of life….well, I have discovered a great pleasure….heated car seats when the weather is bitter and cold! Discovering iced over windows was disappointing, especially when I don't have an ice scrapper! But then I realized this just meant more time to sit in my cozy warm seat and listen to music through a sound system where all the speakers work at the same time! One complaint thought, my seat soon became almost too hot to handle….so I had to toggle the setting to “low”. Such a blessing when the low point of my week was being too warm while waiting for car windows to defrost. I leave you with my new greatest thing ever!
Which One?
Posted by deeryjennifer in Big Questions on January 8, 2014
Verb or Noun?
Watching movies, TV, even in casual conversation, our lives sometimes seem dominated by love. Who we love, who loves us, how to have more so we can be happy. Love is analyzed and pursued – with the ultimate goal always just around the corner. The focus is usually on the feelings evoked. Love as a noun, is an almost tangible thing that should be coveted and treasured, just another possession. Who we love or are loved by can be bragged about or taken for granted like other belongings that sit on a shelf until needed. We protect love, yearn for love, dream about love. Love becomes an almost physical entity, an object, a noun.
What happens if we instead consider love as a verb. Love becomes an action, something that we do. Love becomes a choice. Love the noun is easily changed by outside forces. Nouns are able to be changed, sometimes for the better, sometimes for worse. Actions are the cause of change. Love as a verb…. Love as THE verb transmutes into possibilities and joy.
Changing Love into an action gives an entirely different meaning to ” I love you.” No longer a feeling, but a decision taken with purpose. Love a movie? Your new car? Your family or signifigant other? Love the verb is more powerful than the noun. Make a decision with a reason – and Love becomes a concious, knowing action.
I want the Love in my life to be a choice. I choose Love the verb.
This is what happens when you spend too much time considering parts of speech and reading grammar books.

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